Inner Coaching Academy

I struggled with feelings of powerlessness, creating safe relationships and was challenged by a painful state of hyper-independence where due to my past-traumas from my childhood I lived with a self-concept of shame where I believed myself to always be wrong and bad and underserving of ever having my needs met or achieving my desires.

I tried ambitiously working on myself to fix or figure out what was wrong with me. I was lead down the rabbit hole of indulging in self-development books , learning different modalities of healing , seeking out therapy but nothing worked to make me feel good about myself.

The program has helped me breakthrough limiting beliefs around having to do it on my own and really supported me with discovering a new possibility in relationships where I can trust and be seen and loved for my whole being including my shadows, fears, negative emotions. I achieved a greater self-confidence in my ability to be a leader and facilitated my first Men's group.

Most importantly learning how to LOVE others and myself and be present with anything that comes up!!

I am truly grateful for the sense of belonging present here with my LITT family . This program has restored so much faith and trust in the process of life and the power of love within myself !

Before I joined, I would dip my toe into the pool of healing and then I would take it out over and over again.

I wasn’t completely committed to this journey of healing, self actualization and radical self love, and I was suffering because of it, as were my relationships.

I stepped way out of my comfort zone during the core processes and dove head first into that pool of healing and it has paid off tremendously.

I struggled deeply with self love and self esteem. This challenged me by making me feel small and not worthy inside. This showed up for me by blocking me from the things and life I wanted to create, even felt called and destined to create. I felt deeply that there was more to life, to do with my life, yet I was blocked. I felt not worthy, too afraid, too shy, afraid to put myself out there powerfully at all.

Now, I've moved into radical self empowerment in all areas of my life. I have a voice in my relationship with myself and others. I feel more confident in dealing with other people. I'm truly putting myself out there, my real self, with much less fear or anxiety.

Before I started practicing radical self love in The Core, I was trying to figure it out on my own. I was fine, great, awesome, nothing wrong here, nothing to see, gotta "stay in the vortex" and think positive. I didn't have a lot of experience being open, authentic, and vulnerable with people. I still didn't feel like what I did mattered or that what I had to say was really important to anyone.

I was also uncomfortable with people really getting angry about something or with someone. The Core Encounter has helped me be comfortable with intense emotions within myself and when other people express them. It's taught me how to love people wherever they are and be allowing with what is. It's taught me how to acknowledge things and recognize the impact the things I do have. It's taught me how to release shame around my goals and achievements. It's also solidified how important it is to surround yourself by loving, supportive people.

I'm so grateful for Vince and the people in this program.

Before I started shadow integration and emotional exploration, I would be overrun and consumed by anxiety in my romantic relationships. I would run into the same fears and issues over and over again, resulting in panic attacks, lack of sleep, and exhaustion.

I tried therapy, meditation, learning about the psychology behind attachment in relationships, and performance coaching to try and overcome this internal battle. What I found there was that I had tons of insights, yet I was projecting my insecurities onto may partner.

Working with Vince & his team helped me access my own peace and power around this situation by showing me my own strength, capacity, and resilience to be with any emotion and any communication at any time.

I have mostly focused on personal healing and I have made great progress, but I continued to struggle in my relationships, namely with my children and my partner. I was terrified of talking to my children, and I wasn’t able to communicate effectively with my partner. I felt helpless and experienced a great deal of personal inadequacy and hopelessness as a parent and a partner.

I have learned more effective ways of navigating my relationships, ways of being able to be with whatever shows up in my relationships, I learned how to own up to my failings and how to bring deep honesty and more clarity into my relationships. I was able to clean up the way I relate with my partner and my children and continue to build more trust with them.

I learned the most from the way Vince Bellitto leads our community, the way he continues to show up powerfully and vulnerability has been a great example for me. Witnessing his honesty and transparency, and his capacity to see the highest potential in me and others, his capacity to meet me and each person where they are at, his ability to show love, compassion and care for each member of our team, and his invaluable teachings.

I struggled with self-confidence, communication, and fear. To cope, heal, adapt, etc. I tried counselors, healthy sleeping/ eating habits, recreational drugs, support groups, and more. My deep seated fear came from childhood traumas- These traumas manifested in my adulthood by bringing out fear & worry for worst possible future outcomes- Thus, building a wall around myself, & making it impossible to design/ create my destiny.

Now, I am empowered. I have a strong support system, & I have a confidence that triumphs over fear! Rather than worry, I spend my time imagining what my amazing future looks and feels like!
Thank you Vince, and everyone in groups, for your dedication! ??❤

I struggled with expressing my darkness/shadow/anger/resentments, etc.. I have done a 'wonderful' job of stuffing these feelings towards others and myself inside. Ever since I've been in touch with spirituality, and spiritual practices, I've been great and staying positive and spiritually-bypassing 'negative emotions'.. These practices and ways of coping were great short-term, not so much long-term.. The internally-bottled-up emotions resulted in me often feeling Un-Loved, Incomplete, and Hopeless in my Life and Closest Relationships.

Vince and the team helped me Discover and Access my sense of Power, Cause, and Responsibility. It has provided a continuous support system, which had been lacking in my life.

I am feeling more Fulfilled and Grateful Than Ever In My Life, and Find Myself Sharing and Fulfilling My Purpose of Helping Others Feel Safe to Express Themselves more than Ever. I owe much of this new sense of Inspiration to the work I've done with Vince.

I was actually unaware of this type of work.. until I was made aware of it, and experienced some of it first hand.. I had no idea personally, how powerful and needed shadow integration, and expressing and feeling our emotions truly was.

I used to struggle with many things within. My pain would be extreme, to the point where I would cry, scream, feel guilt and shame on such painful levels.. I had no idea sometimes, what was going on in myself. I feel I have suffered, all at the hands of my own self destruction mechanism.

I tried to go and heal my pain alone. But I soon realized, that my pain can heal.. But sometimes, only with the help of others. ? Now that I'm in LITT, I feel I have gained the tools to really understand and begin to work with someone else through their pain. It doesn't matter who they are, or where they come from. I am a much more empathetic leader and man because of it.

I had a tendency to self blame/shame for others behavior. It became apparent to me, I could see my own triggers and projections but couldn't heal/integrate them in any sort of framework that was usable.

Working with the archetypes provided in the program has given me a greater power towards integration of my shadow aspects and highlighted my Strengths!

Through radical self love it became clear I failed to give myself that LOVE I was needing from myself, and I struggled with understanding that I'm already a whole and complete. I tried most spiritual modalities which left me feeling for the most part, energetically drained or absent of integration. I felt like the "positive" masking offered in the above mentioned were covering the issue and bypassing, the pain or trauma, rather than direct connection where integration can be achieved.

I've gained a more "360 view" of my own projections, uncomfortable thoughts and really feeling into those emotions in the moment. I've noticed I've grown greater interpersonal skills, greater confidence and have achieved a higher emotional I.Q. And I'm seeing this play out in my day to day life. I came to access a deeper sense of self and as a result a higher compassion for what others are going through. The program allowed me to have a great look into my own patterns and have some great "A-HA!" moments. This program has helped me create a more dynamic me!